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    Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

    Evening,

    Can anyone recommend a good place to start for problems arranging access etc?

    Thanks

    SA
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    Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

    If you find a good site, please let me know. My latest grandson was born on 3rd September. We have not seen him, nor has my son, (the Father). Lots of letters from CSA though. She wants the cash!

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    • #3
      Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

      http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/mem...ership-levels/

      ** this is not endorsed by me or AAD. It's just a resource I've heard is trustworthy and pretty good. I've never used it myself.
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      • #4
        Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

        Originally posted by Enforcer View Post
        If you find a good site, please let me know. My latest grandson was born on 3rd September. We have not seen him, nor has my son, (the Father). Lots of letters from CSA though. She wants the cash!
        Just looking at the link Niddy has posted. Looks good, will post back.


        Originally posted by Never-In-Doubt View Post
        http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/membership-account/membership-levels/

        ** this is not endorsed by me or AAD. It's just a resource I've heard is trustworthy and pretty good. I've never used it myself.
        Looks good, thanks mate!
        When Gold isn't enough, there is SA Gold! New to the forum and find the UE route a bit scary? Take a look at my diary here and judge for yourself. I am now saving the money each month that was making little difference to the balance and not a bit of difference to my credit file as a result of finding AAD.


        I'm an official AAD Moderator and also a volunteer, here to help make the forum run smoothly. Any views or opinions are mine and not the official line of AAD. Similarly, any advice I have offered you is done so on an informal basis, without prejudice or liability. If in doubt seek advice from a qualified insured professional - Find a Solicitor or go to the National Probono Centre.

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        • #5
          Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

          Originally posted by Enforcer View Post
          If you find a good site, please let me know. My latest grandson was born on 3rd September. We have not seen him, nor has my son, (the Father). Lots of letters from CSA though. She wants the cash!
          I signed up and there is lots of information on there and lots of forum posts which make interesting/ useful reading. That said, no-one has replied to me yet (4 days ago), so hopefully someone will pop in soon.

          Cheers
          SA
          Last edited by SA Gold; 18 December 2013, 10:40.
          When Gold isn't enough, there is SA Gold! New to the forum and find the UE route a bit scary? Take a look at my diary here and judge for yourself. I am now saving the money each month that was making little difference to the balance and not a bit of difference to my credit file as a result of finding AAD.


          I'm an official AAD Moderator and also a volunteer, here to help make the forum run smoothly. Any views or opinions are mine and not the official line of AAD. Similarly, any advice I have offered you is done so on an informal basis, without prejudice or liability. If in doubt seek advice from a qualified insured professional - Find a Solicitor or go to the National Probono Centre.

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          • #6
            Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

            The whole system is stacked against you I'm afraid. Ive experienced it as a Dad and a lawyer and it sucks. My ex has stopped me seeing my kids for months at a a time for no good reason other than to use them as emotional weapons. She even reported them missing to the police when she knew they with me whilst she was on holiday with her mates in Spain once. Don't expect to get anywhere fast with this. It is extremely frustrating and unfortunatly the courts are often just give false hope- I was told "mum knows best" by court worker many years ago when fighting to see one of my kids and that was from someone who was supposed to be neutral!!!

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            • #7
              Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

              Thanks for posting Andrew.
              Sorry to hear of your troubles. It certainly does come across that the whole system is geared towards the mother - perhaps this is why so many mothers behave the way they do; because they know they can.
              Fortunately, i did see the kids as normal on the weekend and touch wood (isn't it awful having to tread on egg shells when you know you haven't done anything wrong) all plans are set for Christmas.
              I have started reading Fathers matter which interestingly is written by a solicitor although is more about how to negotiate with the mother because the courts will let the father down!

              Thanks for your input.
              Merry Christmas
              SA
              When Gold isn't enough, there is SA Gold! New to the forum and find the UE route a bit scary? Take a look at my diary here and judge for yourself. I am now saving the money each month that was making little difference to the balance and not a bit of difference to my credit file as a result of finding AAD.


              I'm an official AAD Moderator and also a volunteer, here to help make the forum run smoothly. Any views or opinions are mine and not the official line of AAD. Similarly, any advice I have offered you is done so on an informal basis, without prejudice or liability. If in doubt seek advice from a qualified insured professional - Find a Solicitor or go to the National Probono Centre.

              If you spot an abusive or libellous post then please report it by Clicking Here. If you need to contact me, for instance if I've issued you a warning, moved, edited or deleted your post, please send me a message by clicking my username.

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              • #8
                Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                Originally posted by ATW View Post
                The whole system is stacked against you I'm afraid. Ive experienced it as a Dad and a lawyer and it sucks. My ex has stopped me seeing my kids for months at a a time for no good reason other than to use them as emotional weapons. She even reported them missing to the police when she knew they with me whilst she was on holiday with her mates in Spain once. Don't expect to get anywhere fast with this. It is extremely frustrating and unfortunatly the courts are often just give false hope- I was told "mum knows best" by court worker many years ago when fighting to see one of my kids and that was from someone who was supposed to be neutral!!!

                After leaving court today, I will wholeheartedly agree that they system sucks shit.
                I might as well not have been there, as I wasn't listened to, I was spoken down to, I was talked over and apparently the past doesn't matter its only the now that is of concern.
                Even then I couldn't say anything, and when I did it wasn't noted.

                Not a happy bunny atm
                .

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                • #9
                  Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                  Originally posted by SA Gold View Post
                  Thanks for posting Andrew.
                  Sorry to hear of your troubles. It certainly does come across that the whole system is geared towards the mother - perhaps this is why so many mothers behave the way they do; because they know they can.
                  Fortunately, i did see the kids as normal on the weekend and touch wood (isn't it awful having to tread on egg shells when you know you haven't done anything wrong) all plans are set for Christmas.
                  I have started reading Fathers matter which interestingly is written by a solicitor although is more about how to negotiate with the mother because the courts will let the father down!

                  Thanks for your input.
                  Merry Christmas
                  SA
                  Negotiate? I have had 6 years of trying to negotiate and take baby steps, but as soon as the ex has a paddy its all the way back to square one.
                  which is the reason I ended up in Court today ... see my above post regarding that
                  .

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                  • #10
                    Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                    Shit sorry to hear mate.
                    I'm the forum administrator and I look after the theme & features, our volunteers & users and also look after any complaints or Data Protection queries that pass through the forum or main website. I am extremely busy so if you do contact me or need a reply to a forum post then use the email or PM features offered because I do miss things and get tied up for days at a time!

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                    • #11
                      Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                      the best bit, I am now officially a safeguarding risk to my son!
                      I cannot raise a complaint until the section 7 report has been done.
                      I have been told that I cannot do anything.

                      so any helpers/pointers most gratefully received.
                      .

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                      • #12
                        Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                        Safeguarding risk? How so - she's the loony mate not you...? He loves being at yours. Nasty ex!
                        I'm the forum administrator and I look after the theme & features, our volunteers & users and also look after any complaints or Data Protection queries that pass through the forum or main website. I am extremely busy so if you do contact me or need a reply to a forum post then use the email or PM features offered because I do miss things and get tied up for days at a time!

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                        • #13
                          Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                          As I said I wasn't listened to in the slightest.
                          .

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                          • #14
                            Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                            But she was.....
                            I'm the forum administrator and I look after the theme & features, our volunteers & users and also look after any complaints or Data Protection queries that pass through the forum or main website. I am extremely busy so if you do contact me or need a reply to a forum post then use the email or PM features offered because I do miss things and get tied up for days at a time!

                            If you spot any spammers, AE's, abusive or libellous posts or anything else that just doesn't feel right then please report them to me as soon as you spot them at: webmaster@all-about-debt.co.uk

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                            • #15
                              Re: Can anyone recommend good resources/forum for single Fathers?

                              Yep
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